Ego - Realising Yourself Are Ugly .

Today , I would like to talk about something that has to do with our life... Either on someone you are facing with or you, yourself.

Arrogant and egoistic in an individu..
It's never a less to everybody because it's just how we react and respond on every negative things..
Let's say you realised that s/he or you is/are behaving immatuare and finding it's hard to settle small or big problems with them..

You find it's hard to accept people's suggestion or thoughts... Well , everybody is not perfect! but you must know that we need tolerency in our life... If you act like you have no time to tolerate with them , you should know that people around you are the best judges and helpers at the same time.. If you denying that these people will help you.. You are wrong.. Look around you ! Everybody needs help.. Sometimes we are right and of course sometimes we aren't... We can't be right all the time... :)

The steps that you will need to help yourself being a better person without arrogants and egoes... :

Knowing,
1) The Cause Of The Problem

- What is the cause of the problem ? How can it happened ? Who involved ?

=In this case, nobody is suppose to be blame. Take it as a test and you are having them just to see how wise you can settle this. Imagine you are judging and finding the right moves to take next at the same time.

2) Help to Understand Yourself
- what do you feel ? Why ? Is it necessary ? Why ?

= you have to be able to understand yourself before you understand others. If you know that you are hurt because of them. Then, you need to stop them. Find the cause and the impacts to yourself. Ask yourself or write in a piece of paper. You will be wise to know this.

Next,

3)Think About Others

- If you are them, what should they feel right now ? Why ? What is the cause to make them feel that way ? If you are them, would you do the same ?

=In this way , you will know, what type of person you are and what type of persons they are. If these conflics make you feel bad then you must know that they are feeling the same thing too.. Be rasional !

4) Climaxs
- What are the climax in your problem ? How can it happened ? Why it happened that way ?

= Answer it yourself with the best answer you know. In this section you will get the story right.

5) Relationship

- what type of relation that relates you with them? How ? Are they important to you ? Why ? What are the best thing about them that you would not want to loose ?

= This will help you to reappreciate them in your life. Its reminds you, with who you are dealing with.. Is he or she someone you knew yesterday ?

6) Noble Reactions

- What should you do to solve these problems?
What type of actions will you take ? Is it benefieting them or only you ? Should you keep them away or near you?

=This will really helps you on moving a step a head. Your decisson needs wisdom and open mind.

7) Results

-Think about what will happened if you understand them? Will them appreciate you ? Remember, your acts should be wise as it will involve your future.. Make yourself comfortable. You might need a hand.. So I suggest you to find someone to talk with (a trusted person). Don't rush on solving your problems because it may affects your status or relationship.

Hope you will find your best solution. Bear in mind that every hard situation needs hard patience and tolerancy. Some people needed time to think, so give them the time. Sometimes we too need time to relax, find yourself the most suitable time to solve your problems. Dont stress out. Life is a test and you'll be glad to pass them.